Some things that should be crystal clear aren't.
The reason we fear (yes, it’s true) getting healthy and well is simple. Once we reach that healthy state, we’ll be challenged our entire lives to stay that way. Who’s got
that level of commitment? Not many. Scary.
Insight: Mental attitude, physical health, spiritual wellness, career stability, and personal administration are all hard work. Get used to it.
It is extraordinarily uncommon to be fully conscious and in the moment all day, every day.
Why? No seriously, why?
If being thankful is such a blessing, why do we spend so little time doing it? Perhaps the same can be said for being healthy.
If being healthy is such a blessing, why do we spend so little time getting and staying healthy?
I think it’s because we over commit, over schedule, and, under plan. There’s a saying,
“Failure to plan is planning to fail.”
I’m addicted to thankfulness. Grateful for the ability to think about issues like this. Excited to have daily challenges. Encouraged by slow and steady progress toward reconciliation.
Yes indeed, thankfulness is a drug. Don’t forget to take your medicine.
Mid life show off? Depends. It’s all in the eye of the beholder isn’t it? Recently, I heard someone make a few snide remarks about me – “
What a showoff. No shirt. Trying to impress people”.
“Dude, are you talkin’ to me”?, I asked impatiently.
“I guess I am” , the person said, also sounding impatient.
“I’m sorry, I’m not trying to show off. Went for a run earlier this morning”.
(baggy) “Why not wear He then says, gym shorts”?
To which I respond, “I’m a sprinter, and sprinters never wear baggy shorts. Ever watch swimmers”?
, “Yes, with the skin tight pants”. “Exactly”, He quickly says I say.
What was interesting was this:
The person made judgements strictly from my appearance
I never lost my patience
With both walked away feeling better about both of us
Amazing what a little patience, creativity and self-control can do to get better results – skills instilled in me for the past 25 years. Hope it didn’t look like I was showing off.