Pausing in a busy world

Florida Hospital Winter Garden construction
On the way to teach yesterday, i paused for just a moment as i drove by, to take this photo.

 

Pausing in a busy world. Who’s got time?

Slowing down.

Maybe even coming to a complete halt.

To chew our food.

To watch the clouds, almost motionless, actually drift slowly across the sky right before our very eyes.

Or maybe we pause to do something radical, like contemplate the impact of our work. And in so doing, we humbly astonish ourselves at the significant impact we are making.

 

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Midlife growth spurt?

Florida homeowner pool near Disney
Two days ago after a run…finished up a phone call seconds before the photo.

 

Solving for: Why do i share personal blog posts on social media, and not business posts?

Context: Lee Cockerell spent 16 years at Walt Disney World, including the final decade as Executive Vice President of Operations. Lee led 40k Cast Members. He has a prestigious window on Magic Kingdom’s Main Street USA.

A Disney Legend.

Lee Cockerell told me years ago (mid-1990’s) that when he joined Disney, he observed Cast Members having two calendars. One for their professional life and one for their personal life. He helped me (and countless others) realize that we have one life, and therefore should only have one calendar…

The blog posts i share on LinkedIn are always personal, even though it’s a business site. Yet the posts contain the DNA of a lifetime (30+ years) at Disney. Lee reminded me that the same person is in both places, work and home. Trying to be two different people seems misleading, and maybe even life-threatening to our soul.

Self-reflection, already an excellent daily habit since April Fools Day 2009 , has been heightened the past 10 days since receiving John W Jolin’s email asking for a $7,500 payment (versus $30k, for which he believes i would have to pay should we go to court: plus attorney’s fees).

This morning’s reflection, based on yesterday’s (a Saturday) creative work session for a client’s workbook has made me realize how stunningly powerful daily (public) blogging can transform a person – taking them to a level of confidence they never imagined possible.

 

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If you don’t expect it, you settle

UPS package tracking email screenshot
“The check is in the mail.” Receiving payment in advance is wonderful. And expected.

 

If you don’t expect it, you settle.

You may still have to settle, but without trying, you will always settle.

With trying, you may surprise yourself at how readily the Universe meets you where you are.

Be careful where you hang out.

It’s called (midlife) karma.

Karma attracts fairness and unfairness, but mostly karma is fair.

It’s the less frequent unfairness that tempts us to believe karma is just a lucky break.

 

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Not a Disney Fast Pass, but a fast pass still the same

Disney University floor
Looks like a compass. Two days ago in Disney University lobby.

 

Life gets confusing, fast, when you lose sight of who you want to be.

True north isn’t just a catch phrase.

Is it?

 

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We become who we tell ourselves we are

Steve Jobs unveiling the iPhone in 2007
Steve Jobs was moments away from revealing to the audience that those three are combined on one device – the first iPhone announcement in 2007.

 

This is why the way we think is critical to whether we live a life spent surviving or live a life spent thriving.

We become who we tell ourselves we are.

It is simple arithmetic.

Our unstoppable thoughts add up to help us or hinder us.

 

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