Every single day we have more than we can handle

Orlando Based Keynote Speakers

 

The challenge with living like we mean it is there is so much to choose from. Then add to that the unexpected, but regular, challenges life throws our way.

Every single day we have more than we can handle. And what we can’t handle today gets added to tomorrow’s list of normal things plus a growing list of things we don’t have time for.

And we wonder why we are stressed out.

What do you do everyday because you’re passionate about it? And hate when you don’t get to do it?

So add to the daily ‘live-like-you-mean-it’ recipe the dissatisfaction that comes from not getting to embrace our passion.

The constant temptation to short change our dreams.

Time.

It all comes down to time doesn’t it?

And priorities.

And balance.

No?

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Orlando based motivational speakers needed

Orlando Sunrise from aircraft

 

(photo: Will fly anywhere to speak, but the real meeting planner bonus is speaking in Orlando)

Are we living like we mean it? Or do we keep putting that off until the timing is better?

Orlando based motivational speakers needed?

That’s the astonishingly simple foundational premise.

Call or text if you ever need one: 407-538-4341

The Nursing home visit, an upcoming 14th birthday, the option to retire at any time, a ticking clock, long-standing promises to fulfill…

Read Mid Life Celebration for the 23rd time on the flight home yesterday – prompted by a Pennsylvania reader’s wonderful feedback.

Wondering what the next few months have in store. Is it beyond a casual wondering?

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Always leading is a form of codependency

Close up of Bumble Bee on Daisy

 

(photo: Took a run near a park… caught a fairly rare photo… both of these required one thing – time)

The frail, elderly man in the wheelchair who can barely walk…. is he strong or weak?

The middle-aged men or women racing from one life activity to another… are they strong or weak?

How do we know for certain in either case?

Decided to keep it very casual this visit.

Don’t want every meeting to be predictable. You know… thinker, deliberate, driven, determined, etc.

And don’t want every meeting to be driven by the same person.

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Humbled by the mental aging process

Nursing Home welcome sign

 

(photo: Three days, two nights at the Nursing Home and Assisted Living facility)

Humbled by the mental aging process.

Spend one day in the Senior Living facility and adjacent Nursing home and you easily become overwhelmed with the choices we think we have as we age.

History shows that middle aged adults aren’t taking any of these choices seriously.

If attitude really is everything we’ve been led to believe it is….

Guess it’s up to us to manage it and ultimately, to prove it.

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Guest blogger Lorie Sheffer: The 19th Amendment

Old family photograph

 

(photo courtesy Lorie Sheffer family archives: Photo taken around 1905. Lorie’s great grandparents Emanuel and May Baker with 7 of their 12 children, standing in front of their house.

I never knew my great grandmother. She died a decade before I was born. However, she was in my heart on November 2 as I stood on a sidewalk on Broad St in Philadelphia. I could almost feel her walking along with me.

May Holt Baker was the daughter of a Union soldier in the Civil War who barely survived a year as a POW in Andersonville Prison. In her early twenties, she married and left her family home in Illinois to move to the South Mountains of Adams County, Pa. She wouldn’t see her surviving family until 47 years later. The Bakers had twelve children, 10 of whom survived to adulthood; Grace died of whooping cough at the age of 4 months, and Rosalie died of sepsis, the result of a wooden splinter she got while crawling on the floor. Basic vaccinations and common antibiotics were years away. The wood frame farm house in which the family lived, like many homes of that time, had no indoor plumbing or electricity. The family survived on farming, their fruit orchard, hunting wild game, and my great grandfather’s job at a nearby sawmill.

May tried hard to keep up with the news, reading everything she could get her hands on in an effort to educate herself. When she was 47-years-old, women were granted the right to vote. She became increasingly interested in politics and voted in every election. The Great Depression probably didn’t seem that much different from how her life had been since leaving Illinois, but she was keenly aware of the struggles of the nation. She developed a deep affection for President Franklin Delano Roosevelt. One day, while reading her local paper, May saw that FDR was coming to nearby Gettysburg to dedicate the Eternal Peace Light Memorial for the 75th Anniversary of the Battle of Gettysburg. May was 65-years-old and had never driven a car, but she knew she was going. Some way, some how, she was going to see her beloved President. And go she did. As luck would have it, she actually got to shake hands with him. Tears would stream down her face every time she recalled that day. FDR would die in office 7 years later, and May would join him four years after.

I waited in line for 2 hours in the wind and cold, thinking of how she must have waited in the heat that July day back in 1938. Inside the arena, people jumped to their feet as he walked to the stage, the sounds of the cheers and applause like nothing I’ve ever heard. I looked around to see that wonderful mix of people that is Philadelphia; that is America. As the President began to speak, I looked at their faces and I knew we were all feeling what she must have felt 76 years ago on that field in Gettysburg.

Link to dedication video and photographs.

Link to photographs Lorie’s great grandmother’s house, which was recently sold out of the Family.

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