Promises made equal promises broken

Midlife Celebration
A serious wakeup call may be the only hope we have of changing.

 

Imagine taking 30 years to fulfill a promise to ourselves (and our family).

That’s how long it took me.

The guilt would come and go until it literally it disappeared altogether.

Thank goodness for a serious midlife wakeup call.

Baby Boomers suffer from chronic self-bullying.

Lies.

Inspiring promises we made to ourselves but never kept. Never delivered on.

Imagine a rose bush full of wonderful buds, but for some reason, the buds never open. Ever.

The original promise was in 1979 as a college Junior. “i promise to write a book about the most important things in life, for my children”.

i never intended to become a prolific blogger. In fact, it was consistent failure (and not writing consistently) that led to a crazy, self-imposed writing challenge on April Fools Day 2009… write five differently-themed blogs (about balance) for 100 straight days.

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Becoming excellent is too much trouble

Vanity license plate
The world moves forward thanks to overachievers.

 

Blogging is way over rated. So is running. And prayer too, while we’re at it. And anything else that the experts tout is good for us.

You know why?

Because most people’s efforts are half-hearted at best.

Walt Disney’s professional life was a life that was incredibly “all in”.

Please don’t misunderstand, most of us start out all fired up. It’s just this whole notion of dedicating our lives to it. That’s the trouble with becoming excellent, it takes so much freakin’ effort.

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They rejoice when your dream dies

Vulture on sidewalk
Yesterday at jeff noel’s Olympic Training Facility.

 

The self-discipline it takes to see a dream through to completion is an experience that the vultures of the world are happy to see die.

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Who told you you can’t (reprise)

Hidden Mickeys at Walt Disney World
Running through Walt Disney World the other day.

 

Who told you you can’t be an artist?

Art is anything that someone puts their heart and soul into. And it is easily recognized when you hear people say:

“That person cares too much, they work too hard, they reach too high and they think too deeply.”

There’s something you love to do that fits this description.

Let your art shine for others – even if it’s only a handful – to enjoy.

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