Are we good at what doesn’t matter and poor at what does?

Orlando backyard campfire
Is being good at making and maintaining a fire important?

 

Are we good at what doesn’t matter and poor at what does?

We are very good at preparing to live, but not very good at living. We know how to sacrifice ten years for a diploma and we are willing to work very hard to get a job, a car, a house, and so on. But we have difficulty remembering that we are alive in the present moment, the only moment there is for us to be alive. — Thich Nhat Hanh

Trick question in the photo caption. What if by fire we meant passion?

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Guest Blogger Lorie Sheffer: Forgiveness – Step two

(photo: Lorie Sheffer)
(photo: Lorie Sheffer)

 

The first step to forgiveness is our understanding what it is and what it is not. (See last week’s post)

The second step is to realize what it is costing us not to forgive and move on. What is the price we pay when we hang on to our suffering; the energy expended, the emotional toll? When we hang on to something that is detrimental to our emotional and physical wellbeing, we are not being kind to ourselves.

Why would we choose to add self-inflicted hurt to the hurt that was laid upon us by someone else? To do so would be to kick ourselves in the face when we are down.

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The Customer Rules: The 39 Essential Rules for Delivering Sensational Service

A galley copy of Lee Cockerell's 2nd book, The Customer Rules (Super Dome on left)
A galley copy of Lee Cockerell’s 2nd book, The Customer Rules (Super Dome on left)

 

Have we read The Customer Rules: The 39 Essential Rules for Delivering Sensational Service, by Lee Cockerell?

It was released 102 days ago on March 5, 2013.

Should we read it?

Our attitude is directed by our thoughts.

Our thoughts are directed by our actions – actions like what we choose to read.

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PS. I’d read it (buy it here) if you have customers and want them to experience remarkable service. Lee’s book is the best Customer Service book ever written. Bold claim. Calls ’em likes I sees ’em.

Everyday, think, move, feel, work, nest

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Life’s (5) big choices: mind, body, spirit, money, hq

 

Personal responsibility is being able to choose our response

Everyday (think) positive: our thoughts, words, deeds, friends, what we watch, read, focus on.

Everyday (move) healthy: regular exercise, balanced diet, adequate rest.

Everyday (feel)  gratitude: all day, pray without ceasing and in our giving we receive.

Everyday (work) contribute: we study, hone, practice, execute, read, teach, write, review, correct, learn, launch, revise, repeat, ship.

Everyday (nest) organized: mindfully organize the placement, use, storage, and disposal of our stuff.

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