Ever Not Know What To Say?

Speechless?
Speechless?

It happens often. Deep in conversation, we reach a point where we don’t know what to say. Remember the last time this happened? It was my 6th flight last week.

If you fly (or bus, subway, train), do you like to talk, or cringe at the thought? It’s a funny thing, isn’t it? Sometimes I don’t say a word, sometimes we talk for a minute or two just to be nice, and sometimes we talk the whole flight.

She was upset that her friend was diagnosed, at 50, with pancreatic cancer and died three months later. She was upset that her mother died when she was very young, and that her ex-husband was an alcoholic. And at 53, she’s never worked harder, and with a 10% pay cut.

Not knowing what to say, I said, “Maybe you have been blessed with these terrible experiences so that you can help young girls who don’t have a Mom, or women married to alcoholics who feel desperate…”

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Who’s Permission Do You Need?

Will You Overcome Your Fear Of Success?
Will You Overcome Your Fear Of Success?

Who’s permission do you need to do whatever it is you want to do?

Maybe it’s crazy to think this, but can’t we assume that at midlife, we are old enough and responsible enough to make good changes, better changes?

If not you, who?

If not today (or soon), when?

If someone asked you what’s at the very center of your life, what would you say?

What Do You Want From Life?

Guess What This Acorn Wants To Be
Guess What This Acorn Wants To Be

What do you want from life?

Do you know?

Have you asked for it?

What are you waiting for?

You’ll probably race through your day, distracted (on purpose) so you don’t have to face yourself in the mirror.

Right?

What if you went for a walk, or chewed your food a little more slowly at lunch and contemplated what you’d like to do before you die.

What If You Only Had 10 Years

It Doesn't Matter What I Think
It Doesn't Matter What I Think

What if you had only 10 years left to live?

  • Would you change anything?
  • What would you change?
  • Why would you change it?
  • What would you hope to accomplish?

None of us has tomorrow as a guarantee. But just for the sake of starting in a tangible place, can you envision a ten year plan?

I’m 1.5 years into mine.

There are many things that no longer seem so important. And many that now become very important when before they weren’t.

My guess is you’re living life from the bleachers, as a spectator sport.

Prove me wrong.

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