A primitive weapon to fight midlife crisis

Mid Life Celebration book
Wisdom come from experience. Experience comes from making mistakes.

 

The best and easiest way to combat a midlife crisis is to:

Reduce our expectations to zero.

Natural reaction to this is, “Are you crazy, there’s no way.”

Remember this truth:

We see what we want to see.

When we expect nothing, everything becomes a gift.

Gratitude reigns down.

We don’t believe we are worthy of this wonderful overload of goodness.

But, my dear friends, we are.

You are.

Whether you believe it or not.

A midlife celebration.

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To be sure, our choice is habitual

Disney Speakers jeff noel
Change is in the air. Good change.

 

Criminal was my lifelong, general lack of intentionality in consciously and thoughtfully making wise, habitual choices.

Enter midlife…

Midlife presents us with two striking choices.

Life altering choices:

  1. Fear and doubt
  2. Courage and faith

Astonishing how fundamental these two choices are.

Criminal is our general lack of intentionality in consciously and thoughtfully making wise, habitual choices.

To be sure, our choice is habitual.

Turning my midlife crisis into a midlife celebration was the small change that changed everything.

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Rethinking looks good on paper

Wild Deer at Walt Disney World
Oh dear, you mean we are in charge of our destiny?

 

Rethinking public education in 2015 makes sense to Baby Boomers.

Rethinking mid-life, right now, is a much tougher sell to Boomers.

In either case, it is done to change the trajectory.

The 2nd best time to rethink was yesterday.

The best time is today.

Do something that scares you, or something you “absolutely don’t have time for”, like take a walk outside.

Ask, “Am I satisfied?”

A summary of how and why Finland is rethinking education is here.

(Summary: By 2020, Finland plans to phase out teaching individual subjects such as math, chemistry and physics, and instead teach students by ‘topics’ or broad phenomena, so that there’s no more question about “what’s the point of learning this?”)

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Pop quiz in the middle of life

Disney's Pizzafaria restaurant wall art
Disney’s Animal Kingdom Pizzafaria Restaurant yesterday.

 

Is attitude everything?

Here’s the test.

Are you challenging yourself in ways you didn’t know where possible?

(pause for thought)

Next question.

What if you did?

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Blindsided by midlife?

 

Viewing life with tunnel vision?

 

Walkway over Florida Turnpike
Walkway over Florida Turnpike.
Florida Turnpike from overpass walkway.
Florida Turnpike from overpass walkway. From a run two days ago.

 

Blindsided by midlife?

One of Mid Life Celebration’s biggest advocates shared a copy of the book with a small business owner. The business owner is a very busy person (like the rest of us).

His comment was (paraphrased here): “The author doesn’t live in the real world.”

First thought?

What world does he think the author lives in?

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