![It's often very challenging to tell if someone is trustworthy.](https://midlifecelebration.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/12.25.20110448.jpg)
The challenge when we fear people we can’t change nor make go away – say a neighbor, boss, relative – is our options are seriously reduced:
- Neighbor: Sell and move away (or keep a pistol under your pillow)
- Boss: Quit or transfer (or hope they get promoted out or retire)
- Relative: Avoid (not in a mean way)
Or we can go with choice number four, codependency.
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