Actually, The Fairest Part Of Midlife Vacation Is The Fact That We Should Be So Much Smarter In How We’ve Learned To Relax But, like Peter Pan and his shadow, we sometimes get separated. We let our blind ambition erase our intuition. And try to cram lost months into five or six days. Next Blog By jeff noel Retired Disney Institute Keynote Speaker and Prolific Blogger. Five daily, differently-themed personal blogs (about life's 5 big choices) on five interconnected sites. View all of jeff noel's posts.