If you got here from the home page (2013 weekly update 2)

Way to take the chance, and welcome. The goals are simple – to help everyone:

  • think deeper
  • smile more
  • feel grateful

And basically to ask questions people don’t often ask us, like:

“What is it that we could do today to change the trajectory of our life?

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Would you buy indomitable will if it was for sale?

leadership values list
where is indomitable will… even the way it sounds is more powerful than commitment, no?

Would you buy indomitable will if it was for sale? As we begin 2013, we’re reminded of last year:

  • the goals we set and met…
  • the goals we set and abandoned…
  • and the goals we wanted to set but didn’t…

As years pass by we become fairly predictable in our goal behavior, for all the reasons we carry with us year after year.

Enter unfailing determination.

How do we make that work? Who’s got time for that level of commitment?

Hey, what if we thought of it this way…. the time will pass anyway, why not keep going?

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Positive New Year, by Lorie Sheffer, Guest blogger

photo of happy snowman cupcake
Happy snowman cupcake (made and photographed by Lorie Sheffer)

As the New Year approached, I decided to do a little experiment. I wanted to focus on, and be aware of, the day to day negativity I encounter, and make an effort to avoid those sources whenever possible.

The first overt negative message arrived via Facebook on January 2. Disguised in the form of a “joke”, it borrowed an image of a cranky, elderly lady who I believe is the property of a well-known greeting card company. It was a rambling commentary, complete with quotes of a former US President, complaining about “lazy” people on public assistance. I’ve seen such posts before, ranging in commentary on time frames for immigrants having to learn “our” language (America doesn’t have an official language, by the way) or leave the country to “jokes” about people with accents. (Most of the doctors responsible for saving my father’s life had heavy accents, and I am beyond grateful they were not deported because of that.)

I am thankful that there is a delete option I can use for such drivel, while still being able to catch up on births, engagements, photos of grandkids and holiday celebration. When I say “holiday”, I am not “taking the Christ out of Christmas” as some would suggest. I mean “holidays” as in Thanksgiving, Halloween, Christmas, Hanukkah, New Years, Valentine’s Day, Easter, Passover, Memorial Day…….

I saw a bumper sticker calling our President an idiot. I saw one making a profane statement that I can’t even repeat, out of respect for Jeff’s blog.

Turning on talk radio programs I never listen to, I heard hateful tirades for the sake of ratings. The TV is filled with glamorous, wealthy housewives calling one another horrible names and sometimes even throwing punches.

Today I am only 4 days into my vigil on negativity and I am already shocked by how much of it I am exposed to every single day. If I see it, then surely it must be out there for everyone else, too. What affect does this have on us? For some, it may be depressing. For others, it may cause anger. The affect is has on me? I feel a sense of pity. I choose to avoid it and those whose message is one of gloom and doom. I’d much rather walk in the bright sunshine than to drag around a cloak of darkness.

How will we change the way we think this year?

Trees grow tall one year at a time
Trees grow tall one year at a time

How will we change the way we think this year? Do we need to change? Do we want to change? Have we for a long time? What will be different this year?

Not moving forward because it will take too long is interesting. The time will pass anyway, so why not start with the intention of never stopping. Ever. Again.

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He asked, can jeff noel write five differently-themed blog posts in 20 minutes?

under the gun to get people to understand?
Must have been under the gun to get people to understand?

He said, “Yes, I know jeff noel writes five differently-themed blog posts every single day, but can he do it in just 20 minutes?” Here are today’s points:

  • Under pressure, will we keep pressing on?
  • Are we willing to make sacrifices – more than we feel good about?
  • Have we made a remarkable stake in the ground that we will strongly defend?
  • Can we see a future where all of this pays off?

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