Open minds, by Lorie Sheffer Guest blogger

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If we want to air out our home, we open a window. If we want to take a shower, we have to turn on the water. If we want to learn, we have to open our mind.

I have found that the best way to learn is to listen. If I want to learn the most, I listen to people who have different opinions from me. Sometimes I will leave the conversation being even surer of my original views, sometimes I am a tad more in their corner, and sometimes I actually change my original thoughts on the subject.

Always, I walk away having learned something new. It’s not about winning an argument; it’s about learning why the other person views something so differently.

If we always surround ourselves with Yes Men, we tend to lose sight of the larger picture. We become blind to every perspective but our own.

Midlife Celebration and the Dalai Lama think alike

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mind... attitude... choices.... every day... the only thing we can control

Midlife Celebration and the Dalai Lama think alike. Really? How do I know for sure?

I don’t. And that’s a big part of midlife celebration…. there’s no way to prove much of anything in life, unless it’s scientific and involves math, physics, etc.

Therefore, there comes a time and a place when we need to take control and be decisive. Midlife is perfect.

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Is the Dalai Lama following Mid Life Celebration’s blogs?

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The Dalai Lama is neither American nor a Dad... guessing he reads a few blogs

When we arrive at our Mid Life Celebration, we confirm what jeff noel and the Dalai Lama have been saying all along…

Every one of us is getting older, which is a natural process. Time is constantly moving on, second by second. Nothing can stop it, but what we can do is use our time properly; that is in our hands. Whether we believe in a spiritual tradition or not, we need to use our time meaningfully. If over days, weeks, months and years, we have used our time in a meaningful way – when our last day comes, we’ll be happy, we’ll have no regrets.  – Dalai Lama

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