Five daily blogs about life's 5 big choices on five interconnected sites.
Author: jeff noel
Retired Disney Institute Keynote Speaker and Prolific Blogger. Five daily, differently-themed personal blogs (about life's 5 big choices) on five interconnected sites.
How determined are we and is it worth it? To live each day fully present is challenging. Writing and thinking about writing, coupled with constant photo taking, has led to being in the moment and appreciating beauty and interconnectedness in unimaginable ways.
It’s nice to have something special to look forward to. If we wait for that invitation to arrive in the mail, or for the days to pass until the next holiday, life can get pretty stressful/boring/mundane. There are lots of parties just waiting to happen and many events worth a little celebration, if we just look for them.
One of my many eccentricities is turning “normal” events into mini-celebrations. The recent wedding of Kate and William turned into a British inspired brunch at my house. The Presidential Inauguration was reason for a champagne brunch and a special dinner to enjoy while waiting for The Gown to be revealed at The Heroes Ball. There are finale parties for reality shows and season premiers of PBS series. Groundhog Day is worthy of a party in my world. I don’t have to have an extensive guest list. Sometimes I spend days planning and baking for just my husband and myself.
Recently, I was asked why I “bother” going to all the trouble. Indeed. Why bother doing something that I enjoy, and why add a celebratory feeling to an otherwise ordinary event?
Is it really possible to control our attitude? Because there are many arguing no. Cognitive disabilities are just that, disabilities. And disabilities are meant to be overcome. Not in the scientific removal, but in the psychological adjustment to living with it.
Diet, exercise, therapy, reading, meditating, medication, rest, support, non-traditional applications – these are all part of a solution that may not be perfect, but certainly better than doing nothing.
Clearing clutter from our life is possible, but under one condition only. We have to want it more than we fear it. Remember, our first midlife crisis is discovered and conquered when our priorities change. If there is a second crisis, it’s because they didn’t.