We make ourselves a victim when we complain.
Three choices in every situation:
Anything else is childish.
Have been observing for years a public figure who has slowly poisoned their attitude beyond anything that is acceptable.
Time to walk away.
When we focus on the hassles in our life, our self awareness plummets. And our attitude is poisoned. By midlife, we should see this coming each morning.
And each morning, as a person of wisdom and experience, we should prepare to battle the temptations to live with this toxicity. And not do it.