Four things that we all desire yet strangely envy in others We all have enjoyed marching to the beat of a different drummer. Four things that we all desire yet strangely envy in others: Balance, purpose, authenticity, and second chances. The real gift is recognizing our hypocrisy and being motivated to stay on task to eliminate it. All of it. Next Blog By jeff noel Retired Disney Institute Keynote Speaker and Prolific Blogger. Five daily, differently-themed personal blogs (about life's 5 big choices) on five interconnected sites. View all of jeff noel's posts.