This is your life, are you who you want to be? the art of non conformity is honed with age This is your life, are you who you want to be? One month until my 53rd birthday. This has many ramifications. Exciting ones. I always often wonder if others share a similar joy in growing bolder older. Next Blog By jeff noel Retired Disney Institute Keynote Speaker and Prolific Blogger. Five daily, differently-themed personal blogs (about life's 5 big choices) on five interconnected sites. View all of jeff noel's posts.