In midlife we see what we want to see Disney’s Magic Kingdom before Park opening In midlife life we see what we want to see. Often, because of the many pressures on our time and energy, we don’t see much at all. Next Blog By jeff noel Retired Disney Institute Keynote Speaker and Prolific Blogger. Five daily, differently-themed personal blogs (about life's 5 big choices) on five interconnected sites. View all of jeff noel's posts.