8 Common Regrets

End of life studies show 8 common regrets we may face:

  1. Didn’t take that leap of faith when we had the chance
  2. Lacked courage to be true to ourselves
  3. Worked too hard
  4. Lacked courage to express true feelings
  5. Not saying what needed to be said
  6. Not forgiving
  7. Not staying in touch with friends
  8. Not allowing ourselves to be happy

Anything missing? Ready to get busy in 2011?  Next Blog

The Older You Get

May 5th & May 6th, 2010
May 5th & May 6th, 2010

“The older you get the faster it goes.”

Wednesday, while in Philadelphia to give a keynote speech, there was a rare moment with the television on in my hotel room.  A local couple were celebrating their 70th wedding anniversary. Four children, eight grandchildren and three great grandchildren.

Have you heard older people say the older you get, the faster time goes?

Does this notion have any truth for you?

I guess the big question is, “Do you ignore or embrace this truth?”

Buddha Says

What Do You See?
What Do You See?

“If we could only see the miracle of a single flower clearly, our whole life would change.” Buddha

Not sure about you, but my days are a flurry of activity.  And I am fully aware that this busy pace can lead to many negative consequences.

And even in knowing and having awareness, it is still difficult to stop.

When You Least Expect It

Time Waits For No One
Time Waits For No One

Wow.

Life has a way of rewarding us when we least expect it.

Life has a way of punishing us when we least expect it.

By midlife (which is relative), we should be fully aware that we will get our fair share of both. And that in either case, the timing can not be predicted.

Do you understand this?

Do you prepare for this?

Do you react to it?

Or do you celebrate because of it?

If you are seriously looking for more peace at midlife, or any life stage, being prepared for the unexpected is key.

Common sense, but not common practice.

Why?