How to tell if you’re secretly being a jerk to yourself the spare tire cover in a Southfield, Michigan parking garage cardboard art on a Troy, Michigan Starbucks wall You wouldn’t be friends with someone who would always put you down. Why do it to yourself? – Michael Luckman So yes, just to reconfirm, midlife attitude is everything. Next Blog By jeff noel Retired Disney Institute Keynote Speaker and Prolific Blogger. Five daily, differently-themed personal blogs (about life's 5 big choices) on five interconnected sites. View all of jeff noel's posts.