Increasing vibrancy Make a difference in your mindset and Magic happens. BFO: you’re the only one who controls your mindset. Thoughts become things. Things become habits. Thoughts become habits.dad BFO = Blinding Flash of the Obvious. • • • • • This website is about our MIND. To read today’s post about our BODY, click here. By jeff noel Retired Disney Institute Keynote Speaker and Prolific Blogger. Five daily, differently-themed personal blogs (about life's 5 big choices) on five interconnected sites. View all of jeff noel's posts.