Guest blogger Lorie Sheffer: What a wonderful world

Nature
Nature is art. Art is nature. (photo: Lorie Sheffer)

 

A decade of pessimism. Polls have shown that for an entire decade, the majority of people have had negative attitudes about our country. Ten years of looking through the lens of pessimism. How sad. How exhausting. How habitual.

I think back over the past ten years. I have gone to 8 funerals. My husband lost his job of 25 years. Two of the most important men in my life struggled through life threatening illness. I’ve had exactly three mini vacations, overnights, in the past 7 years. And yet I do not feel this sense of pessimism that seems to be sweeping the country. I’m not a very religious person, not one of the faithful. And yet I see hope and beauty all around me.  I look for the good in people and refuse to focus on the negative. Why? Because to do anything less would, in my mind, be a waste of this gift of life that I have been given. Perhaps I choose to remain positive because of, and not in spite of, all of those heartbreaking moments.  We can choose to be pessimistic, or we can choose to be optimistic. For me, it’s an easy call.

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If you don’t mind attention (and enormous gratitude) being drawn to you…

Cheesy slogan
One out of three is not too bad in some situations.

 

Blogging mid-morning from Starbucks on an iPhone. A rare trifecta. Busy schedules are no match for the commitment to a daily, morning writing routine – usually before sunrise.

But today is different.

Today excitement has arrived in an inexplicable way.

The excitement of a bountiful harvest.

And if you don’t mind attention (and enormous gratitude) being drawn to you, you are going to feel triumph in this too.

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We have three choices when we hear statements like this

Stupid, ignorant quote about balance
Bullcrap! As CEO, you can do whatever you see fit to blow the roof of conventional ‘wisdom’.

 

We have three choices when we hear statements like the one in the above photo:

1. react

2. respond

3. initiate

The challenge is time, and energy, and determination, and goals, and fear, and blah, blah, blah.

Do something instead of killing time. Because time is killing you. – Paulo Coelho

Figure it out. You’re are the CEO of You, Inc.

PS. We all want each other to succeed.

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For starters, most social thinking is flawed

Freight ship off Palm Beach, Florida coast at sunrise
Another brand new day. What is it going to be? You are in charge of that.

 

Was reading yesterday and stumbled upon this statement:

You can never expect to be someone else’s priority if you aren’t your own.

What does this mean? For starters it is flawed thinking.

Why?

Because as a midlife adult, truth be told, no one will ever care more about you than you.

Everything that happens to us is our responsibility.

Running our life is like running a business, like it or not.

And not paying attention to the business details will drive us to bankruptcy.

And approaching each day in a balanced way, and with excellence, will keep our business in the black.

Insight: Be the entrepreneur you have always dreamt of being, starting with your promotion to CEO of You, Inc.

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